How time flies! It’s been a week since we arrived in Columbus. And it seems like I’ve just arrived. Although it might be a little bit tiring, I really enjoyed the week here. I’m glad to meet all teachers here. Thanks for all the efforts you’ve done for us!
Many things come to my mind when it comes to the cultural difference between America and China. I’d like pick three of them to discuss.
At first, it goes to the food and drink. I’ve never seen such strange beverages, like cherry cola, in China. The taste is really bad, and I wonder whether Americans like it. Besides, Chinese will never eat food with so many oil in the morning, and there are little cooked vegetables to eat in the US. So why do Chinese likes to eat cooked vegetables while Americans do not? Is it because of the weather or the difference in the soil where the crops are grown? Or there are some other factors.
Secondly, the reaction to sun exposure. I feel strange that not even an American will use an umbrella to avoid the strong sunlight. I still can’t find a good explanation about it. Maybe it’s American tradition? Can anyone give me some ideas?
In the end, people’s attitude towards strangers can be the topic. I’m surprised to find that Americans loves to have a short conversation with the strangers. In China, we’ve been told not to talk to a stranger because he might be a bad guy when we are born. What causes the huge difference? Does it originate from gene? Or does it depend on the environment of the society? May it include both? I’m curious about it.
These interesting difference attracts me a lot. I’ll try to find the answer to the questions. I’m also willing to listen your opinions about them.
Before I came here, I drew a picture about the life here, which was quite different from what I feel these days. It’s not a relaxing shopping trip but a meaningful learning journey. These wonderful memories will stored in my mind for my whole life.
Thanks for posting this thoughtful post, Catherine! I really enjoyed reading these three discussion points. I was happy to read that you've been having a meaningful time during your trip while making wonderful memories!
ReplyDeleteRegarding your three points, I could speak briefly to some of them, but I hope that others will also offer their opinions, too.
1.) I also enjoy to eat cooked vegetables, but as you have noticed, it does seem that cooked vegetables may not be as readily available as they are in China. There could be many theories about this. I don't think it is a lack of access to vegetables, but rather, a preference for eating meat or eating fast food. I'd curious to hear what others think!
2.) Many people may use sunscreen lotion here instead of an umbrella as an attempt to limit damage from the sun. Also, many people are not quite as concerned about exposure from the sun, and in fact, some people "lay out" in the sun in hopes of getting a tan. There are even places where you can get a spray-on tan to give the appearances of having darker skin!
3.) It is not uncommon to make "small talk," or have a short conversation with strangers especially if the environment feels safe. Although children here are also told to "not talk to strangers," as adults, we often talk to "strangers." As I mentioned in our self-defense class, it is important to trust your instinct. In my opinion, most people are not "bad," and especially when you are surrounded by other people, it is usually very safe to talk to strangers. Some who intends to cause harm will usually try to isolate you, take you to a new location, etc. So, I would say talking to strangers is safe, but getting into a car with a stranger is not safe. Does that make sense? I could talk for a long time about this one!
I look forward to talking to you more about this! Enjoy your day!
Brieanne
Thanks, Brie. Your view sounds great! And I think that maybe the difference in the consciousness of people leads to this interesting things.
DeleteGreat observations Catherine! I always find it fascinating to hear the word "strange" when people are describing new experiences. You've simply never been exposed to it before and now you have! New discoveries! Even if it's just sugar water. :)
ReplyDeleteIn response to dealing with strangers...I think China is one of the safest places on Earth. I think this idea of "don't trust strangers" is a result of Chinese values of collectivism (small, close groups are good) and the last 100 years of Chinese history. A lot has happened that caused people to not even trust your old neighbor, so you perhaps are still feeling some effects of that.
I remember one time I dropped a 5 mao coin in the street in Shanghai. I had no idea I did it but got a tap on my shoulder and a nice Chinese man smiled and held out the 5 mao coin to me. Needless to say I was stunned that this person saw me do it and chased me down to give me such a small amount. It's one moment but I had many moments like that.
Yes, I agree with you. I feel that sometimes we are a little over alert to strangers. In fact, most people are friendly to others. So we shouldn't be afraid of trusting others.
DeleteRight, but only through experience do you get to trust that it's actually true.
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