I remember John gave me a comment in the blog that she thought I was a quiet girl both in the photos I post in my introduction and in life. Well, most of the time I'm truly a quiet one. I'm not good at speaking and sometimes I only talk when necessary. Standing in front of crowd and giving speech or chatting with strangers even in Chinese will make me nervous, let alone in English which I'm poor at. I can remember every time I was asked to do my presentation in English class, I suffered from stomach ache. So you can see the horrible influence that psychology can have on people.
However, if you remember I said most of the time just seconds or minutes before, sometimes I'm not so quiet. Do you remember the dance class we had on Tuesday night? I think in the dance class I had nothing related to my usual quiet character. Maybe crazy is more suitable. By the way, chicken dance is amazing and I think everyone should have a try!
What I want to say is that everyone's character is complicated. We may look different and act in different ways in different situations. You should never say that I used to be quiet so I can't chat with people, or I'm boisterous and I cannot sit down and read a book. You may think that you have a certain character but that is not true. You should never say you cannot do something before you try it with all your strength. Try new things and you will find a more multi dimensional self. That's why I chose rock climbing and hiking in SGO, which seem not suitable to me. I don't want to limit myself in a small loop. I want to enrich my experience and make my life more colorful, I want to find a brand new self.
I think it's a good game to kill time and have fun, and actually I brought a book of sudoku with me to spend my boring time on high-speed train from Wuhan to Shanghai. It really worked. Besides, sudoku is also a good way to improve one's patience and logical thinking ability. Facing with the situation that no sub-grid can be determined by given clue, what we should do is to find a sub-grid that only have two optional numbers and then try one of the digits, regarding it as the right one until we figure out the whole puzzle or get a contraction. Making a decision here is always better than doing nothing. I think it's the same in our life. What's more important, after we made a decision, we should regard it as the best choice. If you doubt that you might make a mistake and keep thinking about other choices, you will be hesitated, and when you hesitate, you are more likely to spare your efforts and give up half-way more easily.



You did a great job!
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